Sometimes I wonder

There is a fine line between being responsible and humble enough to be the head of your family, may it be two or three in your small family but you still need to maintain a sense of cool, and formidable way of dealing with the importance of your family.
I do not understand why women out there marry quickly to a military man and then give out a aroma of being easy.
I go too bars and meet women and half of them are military wives and they tell me how they can relate to me. No! you can not. I am at a bar with my husband not while he is away, or I am at a bar with my family while he is away. I am not here on my own going boy crazy as i presumably can tell from the ease you take talking to a man.
I have had my fare shares of irresponsibility at the young age I married and I had to learn the hard way of how to maintain class being a military wife. We already have a reputation as being the easy slut, from the many who have decided to cheat on the loved ones who are putting their life at risk fighting for our country who cheats us from the real hero rewards.
I do not like those love stories that end with the heartbreak of cheaters or the divorce of irreconcilable difference because you rushed into a marriage, or maybe he was your first love. May it be whatever reason you have, Marriage is taken to lightly these days, and I want to put it out there that we military wives need to take precautions to not let that percentage of divorce rate in the military rise.
Love is blinding and you need to remember that as soon as you say I do, You need to maintain the responsibility and humbleness of this family you are now making.