The concept of love

Who is anyone to define the true meaning of love or what romance really is. I've recently talked to a friend that has a right idea and i quote," Sometimes, I think that I’m a hopeless romantic. You mentioned “just laying in bed and watching movies”. I think that can be romantic, too. In my opinion romance isn’t always about “glits and glamor”. It’s about the time you spend with the one you love." and what if this one theory is right. what if this is what many people in the world believe. what makes a human simple. someone who thinks clearly and comes with a reasonable conclusion to the question on everyone's mind who is or has been in love. i sit with music on and i hear the lyrics, most people don't they think they do but they don't define them for what they really are. just simple words can be accounted as a romantic gesture. but how do we distinguish people from hopeless romantics to those that aren't so hopeless in their quest for love. is there really "the one" or is it something that society made up one day to cover up some estranged fragment of the possible truth due to powerful justification of religion. I'm one of millions who have asked this question. and although there is scientific proof as to why we feel the emotions of love due to our brain waves, how do we know that there really isn't something as powerful as just one word, " LOVE." there have been people who have opposed to the scientific facts. and brought great love stories of the worlds past. what if these love stories are the reasons that politics and kingdoms and countries were defined by the power of love. is it really blind? is it really just a part of our conscience and not our entire being. how do we go on everyday not understanding that our concept of love is not from our own imagination but from others. through out the years. movies, songs, books, folk tale. is this just all a gimmick to reproduce the human race. we as humans are known to be cruel. we are the only animals who kill our own kind. how about maybe our own kind put an evil form of power and transformed it into love. just to get reproduction out of our kind so we can live. but because of this idea this love we are over populated and now are in one of the worst shapes our planet has been in. what if love contributed to fact of global warming. what if every great idea was behind love, behind the passion we carry as humans. i could be wrong in many of my thoughts in this paragraph but none the less they are my thoughts. only because i am to a victim of this power called love.